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How do you define procrastination?
For many people procrastination is something that they
associate and identify themselves
with far too easily. The challenge is that once you identify
with a behavior (positive and
negative) it becomes part of who you are and your experiences
and actions are filtered through this
identity.
We can define procrastination as
"task aversion" which is the irrational delay of an intended
course of action. Translated from the
original Latin meaning, procrastination quite literally
means ‘in favor of tomorrow’. As
human beings we are always pursuing ways of being better
off – everything we do, we do with a
positive intent. Although procrastination seems to
contradict this fact, it actually
illustrates a very important point. What we do, or fail to do, is
not purely the result of our
conscious choices, but often the result of factors we are not aware
of consciously. When you
procrastinate, at some level of your unconscious thinking, you believe
that taking the action will leave you
worse off than actually taking the action.
To change this negative tendency, you
need to do two things. Firstly you must remove the
association and ‘attachments’ that
you might have with procrastination. Realize that you are
NOT a procrastinator. Although you
might procrastinate at times, you cannot afford to limit
yourself by defining yourself by your
behavior. Secondly, you must redefine procrastination
in such a way that it will motivate
and empower you instead of limiting you.
The way we define things for
ourselves will determine the way we interact with it. If you see
procrastination as a chronic problem
that you were born with, then it is likely that you will
struggle with it all your life. If
you define procrastination as a bad habit that you need to deal
with at some point in the future,
then it will control you. If you see procrastination as something
you cannot overcome then you will
probably be right.
If you define procrastination as a
negative tendency that you choose to put aside, then you will
be empowered to take action despite
procrastinating. Whether you CAN do something is
rarely the result of your ability.
It’s almost always a case of motivation. Motivation is nothing
but an inner drive that compels you
to action, and gaining leverage on yourself is a powerful
way to find the necessary motivation.
There is a definition of
procrastination that can do just that. I choose to define procrastination
as the thief of time. When you think
about it you will realize just how true it is because
procrastination is what keeps you
immobilized and stuck in inaction. Time is your most valuable
and your most precious asset. People
go to extreme measures to protect their money and
their possessions, but do very little
to ‘protect’ their time – the one thing that money can never
buy. Learning to value your time, is
a powerful strategy for overcoming procrastination and
getting the most out of your life.
When you value something you will look after it and protect it.
Your time is limited. Have you ever
wondered how many days you have in your lifetime?
At first blush you might guess that
it is a hundred thousand or even a million. In fact, if you
grow to be 70 years old your entire
lifetime will only have 25 550 days. If you are 30 now,
then you’ve only got another 260 000
hours left – and a third of this will be spent sleeping.
You have just as much time as Bill
Gates, Mother Theresa, Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey or any
other person on this planet. The only
difference is in the way you use your time. Don’t allow
procrastination to steal your most
precious asset.
Instead, see procrastination as a
call to action. It is likely that what you are procrastinating
about is something that you ‘must’
do. See, what we don’t do and what we don’t face
controls us. But when you face it and
you do it, you liberate yourself and it no longer has any
control over you. If you have this
sense of urgency and awareness that your time is precious,
then you won’t allow the thief of
time to hold you down. What you get out of yourself does
not rely on your ability. It relies
on how much of your resources you can get access to and this
is almost exclusively a psychological
exercise. By changing how you define procrastination for
yourself you can start to change this
internal conversation and empower yourself to take action
and make things happen.
Deon Du Plessis from
Overcoming-Procrastination.Com is a
former chronic procrastinator
who never managed to get
anything done. He now teaches some of the most powerful strategies
for overcoming
procrastination in A Course Of Action, a FREE online course.
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